Embracing Purpose

It's been a minute since I have blogged. There have been many changes in life on a personal and professional level.

Recently I celebrated my 38th birthday. For the first time in a very long time, I am genuinely excited about life and what is for me. I am learning what I should tolerate and what I shouldn't. I cannot put my purpose on hold anymore because certain people are afraid of change. I am no longer ashamed of my past. I am no longer walking in fear due to abandonment and rejection.

This is not the time for me to slack in order for others to feel comfortable. Many people are content where they are and that is fine. I am not. I am not forcing relationships to flourish. If you are connected to me then you should be able to adapt to the positive changes in life I am making.

The same goes for you. Why are you settling for less than you are worth? On Sunday, one of the ministers told us to examine what we tolerate. Are you comfortable in your life? You cannot complain about the things you are unwilling to change. Look at who is adding to your life and who is subtracting. You should not be suffering in silence.

I encourage you to embrace your purpose immediately. We are in the fall season where the dead things fall off. And it is a beautiful process. The trees don't complain because they know something better is coming. They allow the process to happen.

Resistance is not always a good thing. And there are somethings that are not going to be handed to you. You will have to go after it.

I love you all to life. It's time to stop making excuses and to stop procrastinating.

One Love,
Fredrika

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