The Thoughts of a Coffee Drinking Vessel

I am at the place where people in my life have been repositioned. They no longer play the role I thought they should have. When you get to a certain place in your life realize that you cannot take everyone where God is taking you. There are some people that you will have to distance yourself from. It may hurt (living witness) but in the end you will be better for it. Every good person is not good for you in this destiny walk you are taking. People are like the seasons. They change. Some people cannot handle your winter but are around in the spring. Some don't like the summer because they cannot stand the heat but once fall comes and the autumn rains(blessings) come they are waltzing in like nothing has changed. Realize that you are not in the same place when you started this walk with Christ. As you mature and grow your taste and tolerance will change. And you have to take it very seriously. Everyone that started with you will not understand and will have something to say. And

It is possible to be saved, single, and successful. Even though society has a tendency to from upon this, I have discovered that because I know that I will not be single forever, that this is a blessing to be single right. Ecclesiastes 3 tells that there is a time for everything under the sun. Take this moment to realize who you are as a person so that when you meet the one for you that it is a struggle. You need to be able to give your significant other all of you now and not a piece of you wrapped in the past. This is the opportunity to set goals for your life. This is your "me" time basically. Enjoy it. And don't count being single as a curse because it is not that at all. Don't be so desperate that you end of settling for less than the blessing. If you are hurting right now take this time to heal. Your success depends on your healthy mind, soul, spirit, and heart. Success isn't monetary. That is an added bonus. I own my own business now at the age of 32. And I